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The hosts start by clarifying the difference between red, green, and yellow flags. While red flags indicate serious issues requiring immediate action, and green flags denote positive aspects of a relationship, yellow flags are the subtle signs of potential trouble. These early indicators, if identified and addressed promptly, can prevent larger problems from developing. They emphasize that noticing yellow flags and addressing them together is a sign of a healthy relationship, as it demonstrates an awareness and willingness to work on issues before they escalate.<\/p>\n
The episode explores five common yellow flags, starting with niggling at each other more frequently.<\/p>\n
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Kim explains that minor arguments over trivial matters can accumulate over time, creating an atmosphere of tension and resentment. This persistent bickering erodes positive feelings and goodwill, making it difficult for partners to move forward as a team. Rog adds that these small slights can chip away at the relationship, disrupting the essential balance of positive to negative interactions.<\/p>\n
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The second yellow flag discussed is one partner shutting the other out or going inward. Rog describes behaviors such as spending more time on the phone or isolating themselves as signs of this issue. This emotional distance can lead to feelings of loneliness and rejection, weakening the bond between partners. Kim notes that this can be challenging to recognize and suggests that partners need to be attuned to these subtle changes.<\/p>\n
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Increased alcohol consumption is the third yellow flag. Kim highlights that a noticeable increase in drinking frequency or using alcohol as a coping mechanism can negatively impact the relationship. This behavior often signifies an avoidance of deeper issues and can lead to emotional distance and loneliness.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.21.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” locked=”off” custom_margin=”||21px|||”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=”Kim suggests that being stuck in a relationship” _builder_version=”4.25.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n The fourth yellow flag is the failure to repair after a fight or taking too long to reconcile. Rog and Kim stress the importance of repairing conflicts to maintain trust and emotional intimacy. Avoiding discussions about conflicts can lead to accumulated resentment and an “us versus them” mentality, undermining the relationship’s foundation.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.21.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” locked=”off” custom_margin=”||21px|||”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=”Kim suggests that being stuck in a relationship” _builder_version=”4.25.2″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n The fifth and final yellow flag is a reduction in touch and gentleness. Kim discusses how less physical affection, such as hugging, kissing, or hand-holding, can diminish the bond and emotional intimacy between partners. Kim and Rog emphasize the need for deliberate efforts to maintain physical closeness and reassure partners about their feelings and intentions.<\/p>\n To address these yellow flags, Kim and Rog recommend several strategies. They suggest being direct in communication, going slowly to allow partners time to process, and embracing each other’s willingness to try despite resistance. They also encourage modeling positive actions and changes in behavior to inspire similar changes in the partner. For example, initiating physical touch or planning quality time together can help rekindle the connection.<\/p>\n The episode concludes with Kim and Rog highlighting the importance of using yellow flags as tools for growth rather than signs of failure. 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